If you were offered to choose only one main kink, just one, what would it be?
Until I discovered chastity, for me, it was the collar. Why? When the collar clicks into place on your neck, life changes. There's a shift in reality, a transition to another world.
After that, any practices can take place, but without the collar, they're impossible. Simply doesn't make sense. It's a moment of transition, a threshold after which you become a different person. You voluntarily give up control over yourself and surrender to the flow.
The chastity is the same but on a much larger scale. The effect is stronger, and the power is limitless. And considering that the cage remains on you constantly, making it impossible to forget, the transition effect is immensely stronger. You find yourself in a new universe, and the old one simply ceases to exist