If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, is it a duck (slave)?
Not necessarily! All that is the level of behavior. But to be a real slave, not just look like one, you need to think and feel like a slave. And only when all this comes together, we can talk about a real slave identity.
How to make sure that a slave's identity is fully formed?
Give him a choice, an illusion of freedom! If, in the absence of forcing and control, the slave acts as it should - it's a success, the training has been successful, and a new slave personality is formed. If not - he's just playing at being a slave.
It's a complete analogy with a dog - the job is done when you can safely let it off the leash.
A couple of my personal examples:
1. A well-trained dog will never bite its owner. Even if this happens during the game, it feels severe frustration.
I experienced the same thing when the Mistress freed me from the cage and said “Ahead, fuck me!”.
I couldn't. It came from the subconscious level! I just can’t and the strong hard-on instantly fell.
2. When another Mistress asked my Lady to buy me. I know her well enough, that's why I begged Lady M not to sell me. But later I realized that if She decided to do it, I would not be able to refuse. Nothing prevents me from refusing physically, but I understand, I feel that I cannot refuse Her order.
This is what I consider to be a fully formed slave psychology. When your sexual behavior is changed by her will. When the whole your life under Her control. When you have any opportunity to disobey, but it doesn’t even occur to you.
In the following posts I will try to reveal how to form this personality
It's a shame that most do not understand the selfless self, that there is a special joy, a freedom found in service to another.