Before and after

in Wild and Kinky Stuff

By giving me the opportunity to be on the cover of a BDSM book, NUM has helped me to bring my secrets desires to life.

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Howard Smith

Mar 09

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Many may feel embarrassed about their kinks. It makes sense. Kink is still TABOO. But it also can be a bridge to the deeper parts of yourself, a growing awareness of who you really are. Many here are well aware of that. You are among friends. May I ask, what do you dream about "more and more?" What images or actions come to mind?

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Veronique

Mar 09

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Being a slave turn me on, a little more each day.

Howard Smith

Mar 09

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It does reveal a very wonderful part of your soul, something missing in societal folkways and mores. What society calls loves is highly conditional. "Love" in this sense is often carefully metered and measured between give and get.

A true slave heart is, among other things, is all "give" and no "get." A slave may never use the word love in that traditional vanilla context, but it is really closer to a deep seated soul need to love in an unconditional way. It is altruism in the strictest sense...and can be the path to true intimacy...intimacy unfiltered by conventional thinking of give and get.

As beautiful as you are, this slavery kink is your inner beauty...and far more compelling.

Howard Smith

Mar 09

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Well, you certainly make for a fine book cover, but your fantasies, your dreams, your deepest desires, are what make you even more of the beauty that you are. They tell us so much more about the real you and what makes you tick. Please keep posting. Do tell us more.

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